Yes! It is a huge step to make that first change happen.
Why? Because deep down we scared that we won’t make it. That we will not be strong enough to push through and that somewhere along the way we’ll just give up. And that’s scary! Because we do not want to disappoint ourselves. We do not want to let our own self down. Perhaps we already feel miserable and we certainly don’t need to make it worse.
So what do we do now? We delay it for different and various reasons. There’s always something… work, family, friends, loneliness, money, too much pressure, life keeps getting in the way. So, perhaps tomorrow. Or next month. Or after things get better.
I know. I’ve been there🙏. But, you see, circumstances will not be always perfect and life will not be preparing obstacle free way for anyone.
There are many things that we cannot change or affect or solve. But there is one important thing that we can do regardless of anything that can possibly happen.
Being better than we were yesterday.
Because that is something that we can do. We can cut down on that bad habit. We can look at things from a different angle. We can try to make it differently. We can make that first step without expectation, without any pressure, without any explanations or excuses. Just the one step to see how it will make us feel.
One step at a time. One day at a time.
I believe in you ❤️🍀
