Does it make you wonder what do I mean?
Fantastic!😃 Let’s explore this topic together😊.
We come to this world pure inside out. We have no knowledge, we have no skills, we have no habits…there’s nothing. Just like a clean sheet of paper, ready to be written on.
But who writes the first few chapters? Certainly not us. And in what stage is that sheet of paper when it actually gets to us…?
You see, our family and our surroundings are the one who shapes us from the very beginning. It is based on traditions, beliefs, life experiences and lifestyles. But it only teaches us to be what others believe that we are and should be. However, it becomes the fundamental of our life.
In most cases, we have no thoughts about questioning it and we keep building on it. We lead our lives based on it, not realising that it doesn’t necessarily lead the right way.
We all were told at some point through childhood that our dreams are unapproachable, that we can’t be who we want to be because it is not possible, for whatever reason – religion, money, nationality, not enough talent, not enough belief… and instead of being supported, we were redirected and those dreams were pushed away and locked in our head as unrealistic. That itself, is a huge misalignment.
Not truly aware of our potential, we start to move and grow further away from our own identity.
Some of us realise it sooner, some of us later and some of us never really do.
There is so much more to say to this topic and what everything influences us without our realisation. But that may be better to leave for another article.
I will perhaps only say that if deep down you feel that there’s more to life, don’t be afraid to start digging ✨❤️🍀.
